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Getting a handle on Life..!!

Why is it that a particular ambition or relation or venture or association becomes so mission critical in our life that we cling on it as if it were a life savior and tend to collapse within should the endeavor never take off or goes kaput in between? Why do we let it affect us so much that we fail to recognize the pleasant things that life has to offer us at that point and time and yet choose to wallow in self pity and get warped in it? Momentary withdrawal is understood for it is a part and parcel of human life but why do we take permanent decisions on temporary situations?

Always remember, success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. Whenever you're in conflict with anything or anyone in life, there is one factor that can make the difference to sabotaging the situation. That factor is attitude. No matter how far you've gone; you can always turn around. Handle the situation precariously and you've let the situation slip outta your hand but if handled with a dose of reality as icing, you'll know how exactly to salvage the situation and bounce back. Every scar only makes you stronger even if the mark remains as a memoir.

When things get tough, find a reason to go on instead of a reason to quit. Both are easy to find, but the one you chose will change your life. In life, things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up. It simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up… it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be.

I end this here with this fact of life...
You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.



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