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Navigating Uncertainity!

What do we do when everything feels so out of control? Left, right and center you see everything around you fall like a pack of cards and you seem to have no control or handle on life. None of us are spared. At some point in the life or other, we all go through such phases of life that shatter us completely. The times are so exacting on our nerves that our mind refuses to use it's thinking prowess and our heart appears to be devoid of hope. The ambiguity takes a significant toll. 

What is to be done?
Pause.
Find a medium to express yourself. Do not bottle-up.
Become the Observer of your own life. An out of body experience that will help you with objectivity to the dilemmas.
Give time, time.

As for me, writing has been therapeutic. It has been the antidote to all the blind spots life unfolded in my path. Once expressed, I felt lighter and was able to spring back on my feet. Undeniably, I took time each time but I was about to circumvent it. I use this medium to navigate the uncertainties of my life.

What is yours? Yield not. Find out.

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