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Is this how it should be..??

What kind of ecosystem are we living in today?
Everything is so superficial and artificial.The world is rife with rules of the jungle. We spend millions of dollars trying to find out life in another planet and we spend two times the amount killing life on this planet. What are we trying to prove?

Relations are formed with the blink of eye and called off within nanoseconds of dissent. Huh..?? It is not just about man and woman relations, it's about all of them - Parents, Siblings, Relative, Friends, everything.

The zooming technology that has wrapped us in it's little finger is making life insane. Sanity has been redefined or best omitted. Reality-checks have taken flight to John Galt's world.

Peer pressures. People pressures. Society pressures. Status pressures. Pressures to keep up with anything and everything that is launched on a daily basis.

The Technology which brought us all close in its inception has now become the devil by killing the human touch. We don't talk anymore; we perennially WhatsApp, FB, Tweet and Insta. All of this even when we are confined in the warmth of our home and are with family.Is this how it should be..??

I miss those days of carefree innocence where "eenie meenie mo" always gave the right answers to anything and everything in life. It is the growth and all that came bundled in that ushered in this chaos.

I have lost many of my besties to this mayhem and so the wound is ripe. Today, to me they just appear as travelers in life. We met, we bonded for decades together and then we parted.

All I would like to say is - Never compromise who you are, your beliefs, and your morals, just to appease someone else. We are who we are because of the walk that we had. No one understands that better than you for it is you who survived it all. When you stay close to nature, to its simplicity, to the small things hardly noticeable, you experience inexplicable joy and happiness from somewhere you never expected.

Here's where the real world is --- Rest everything, nah..!!

Zendagi Migzara...





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